Some people have questions for us

How do we write novels together as a married couple? What was it like having our OCD story published in The New York Times? Who actually does all the writing? How do we balance writing and family life? No really, how does the writing work?

We get lots of questions. Luckily, we love to talk! See below for our list of recent and upcoming media appearances.

We invite you to join our free Substack newsletter/blog, Hey Honey: our conversations about parenting, writing, and mental health. Hey Honey is an inside look at our relationship and writing process, like having a fun conversation over a glass of wine with an award-winning author couple.

We had so much fun talking about parenting and writing on the Suspenders Unbuttoned podcast. You can watch the video version on YouTube or listen on Spotify.

We were delighted to be guests on NPR’s Embodied radio show in April 2023 to discuss how OCD affected our relationship. You can listen to our full conversation with host Anita Rao at the Embodied Radio Show website or find a shorter version wherever you get your podcasts.

Nicole joined a handful of Modern Love essayists including Theo Nestor, Shin Yu Pai, Putsata Reang, Denny, and Nicole Hardy, hosted by The New York Times' Modern Love Special Projects Editor Miya Lee, to read their essays to a live audience.

Thursday, March 10, 2023 5:30-7pm at The Shop by Porter, 1201 2nd Ave #100, Seattle, WA

Nicole spoke on a panel called Two Decades of Modern Love at the Association of Writers & Writing Programs annual conference.

2023 AWP Conference & Bookfair

We talk with author and podcast host Jo Piazza about how we met, how OCD affected our marriage, and our writing process.

Committed Podcast Season 8: Obsessions & Compulsions